{"id":2509,"date":"2022-11-28T06:39:43","date_gmt":"2022-11-28T13:39:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.danielyerelian.com\/blog\/?p=2509"},"modified":"2022-11-28T06:39:44","modified_gmt":"2022-11-28T13:39:44","slug":"never-forget-someones-name-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.danielyerelian.com\/blog\/2022\/11\/28\/never-forget-someones-name-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Never Forget Someone\u2019s Name Again"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>(Also posted on <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@dyerelian\/never-forget-someones-name-again-988874db665f\" target=\"_blank\">Medium<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"4a32\">\u201cHey Dan, great to see you again!\u201d My stomach dropped, what was their name again?? I know we had met before and, they remember my name but I can\u2019t recall theirs. Embarrassing!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"7fe8\">We\u2019ve all been there. We\u2019re introduced to someone and 5 minutes later we have forgotten their name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.danielyerelian.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"612\" height=\"532\" src=\"https:\/\/www.danielyerelian.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2510\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.danielyerelian.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image.png 612w, https:\/\/www.danielyerelian.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-300x261.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"59be\">Remembering people\u2019s names is important. It demonstrates that you care and respect them. As noted in Dale Carnegie\u2019s iconic book \u201cHow to win friends and influence people\u201d he puts it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p id=\"1794\">\u201c<strong>A person\u2019s name is to him or her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.<\/strong>\u201d \u2014 Dale Carnegie.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"29d3\">Here are three things you can do to help remember people\u2019s names and also when you do forget how to graciously recover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Realize remembering people\u2019s names are tough. But you can do it. This is one of those fake it until you make it things. Literally just believing you will remember someone\u2019s name prepares your subconscious mind to receive a name.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>If you are into programming it\u2019s like creating a spot in memory for an array in preparation to store data<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you are into gardening it\u2019s like digging a hole in preparation for planting a seed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you are into running it\u2019s like stretching before you start<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"7354\"><strong>When you get into a situation where you know you will be meeting new people. Say to yourself \u201cRemember names is tough. But I can do it\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"14ec\">2. Now that you are fired up and prepped to remember new people\u2019s names. Repeat the person\u2019s name back to them. Really focus on what they look like and repeat their name back to them. Don\u2019t worry about telling them your name yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p id=\"998d\">\u201cHello David, It\u2019s a pleasure meeting you.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"eea1\"><strong>Also as you repeat their name back to them focus on the name. Does it jog any memories?<\/strong>&nbsp;For example, in my mind, I may be like, David like David Hasselhoff, from Knight Rider. That is a dope show. Sweet. Quirky, but it works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"007b\">3. During your conversation practice bringing their name up again. Now, this is a bit of an art because you don\u2019t want to sound like a weirdo. So don\u2019t repeat it too often. But this will help reinforce the person\u2019s name in memory. A great time to mention their name is when the conversation is over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p id=\"84e9\">\u201cDavid it was great meeting you.\u201d (David, like in Knight Rider, awesome)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"4f52\"><strong>Lastly, if you forget someone\u2019s name. Own it.<\/strong>&nbsp;If you don\u2019t ask right away it may get weird and worse, fast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p id=\"902c\">\u201cShoot I feel embarrassed I know we met before. Can you please tell me your name again?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"bd2f\">Before you head out into a social setting read these tips to refresh. Meeting new people is one of the most interesting and valuable things we get to do. And good on you, you are taking the effort and working to be consistent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p id=\"4048\">When you meet people, show real appreciation, then genuine curiosity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"4048\">-Martha Beck<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Also posted on Medium) \u201cHey Dan, great to see you again!\u201d My stomach dropped, what was their name again?? I know we had met before and, they remember my name but I can\u2019t recall theirs. Embarrassing! 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